I mean, c’mon.
Who doesn’t want to become highly irresistible?
Back in the day, I’ve always been jealous of guys who seem to have “it.”
They’re confident, social and charismatic. Men respect them and women love them.
I was in desperate need to figure this out because I was so tired of being socially awkward.
After many years of trial and error, reading tons and tons of books and connecting with other socially confident guys, I saw a pattern.
There are a few things that were mentioned over and over again.
Curious to know what those are?
Here are 7 habits of highly irresistible guys.
They Like Who They Are
Self-love is the most important thing you need to learn in order to become irresistible.
How other people treat you is a reflection of how you treat yourself.
If others aren’t responding well to you is because you’re allowing that kind of behaviour around you.
The opposite is also true.
If you like who you are, then you will not tolerate any bullshit from other people.
You’ll get exactly what you think you deserve.
They Present Themselves Well
Let’s be honest, looks are important.
First impressions make a huge difference on how people perceive you. We make snap judgements about others right away. That’s just how we’re wired.
If you want to become highly irresistible, you have to pay attention to how you’re coming across.
Even if you’re not naturally born good-looking, taking care of your style and grooming can definitely make you look more attractive.
Your interactions with other people will dramatically improve if you just pay attention to how you present yourself.
They Make Others Feel Important
Highly irresistible guys are good listeners and ask good questions. That’s why other people feel heard around their presence.
Be curious and have a genuine desire to get to know everyone you interact with.
Put away your phone, stay present and treat the person you’re with the most important person in the world at that given moment.
They Are Courageous
Nothing good ever comes out from playing it safe.
You have to value your own opinion more than others if you want to become an irresistible person.
Take a risk, put yourself out there and always go for what you want. The more you do this, the more you’ll respect yourself because you’re actions are in alignment with your values.
Remember, courage isn’t the absence of fear but your willingness to act regardless of how you feel.
They Are Authentic
It’s funny how it works.
Guys who want to be impressive want to say the right things and they’re always in their heads. Ironically, the harder they try, the more it backfires on them.
Highly irresistible guys just say what’s on their minds. They don’t hide their emotions.
That’s why you have to learn how to become vulnerable. By sharing your flaws and your struggles, you become a lot more relatable.
They Are Optimistic
There’s always 2 sides to every story. One’s good and one’s bad.
Why not choose the one that will benefit you the most?
Positivity is very attractive. Nobody likes being around someone who complains a lot.
You’ll get exactly what you’re looking for so train your mind to see the good in your situation.
Don’t be surprised if you find more solutions rather than problems when you do this.
They Are Passionate
Highly irresistible guys love what they do.
And because they enjoy it, they eventually become really good at it.
Stop wasting your time doing something you hate. You are not put on this planet to just exist.
You owe it to yourself to find what your passion are and do more of what you love.
Follow these tips and you too will become a highly irresistible person with enough time and effort.
I hope you’ve enjoyed learning this as much as I’ve enjoyed writing this for you.
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