Sometimes, you can’t have it all.
Having a great career can help you live a comfortable lifestyle but it can also hold you back from dating the woman of your dreams.
What’s the point of building a castle if you don’t have a queen to share it with?
In the past, I’ve coached guys who work very long hours. Typically, they are Accountants, Engineers and IT Professionals.
They told me that they found it really difficult to find the relationship they want because they lack the time and energy to go out and socialize.
If this sounds like you, there are ways around it.
Back in the day, I worked as a Structural Designer for a big Engineering company. Even though it paid well, it definitely was boring as hell.
Since I worked with mostly men, my flirting muscles eventually atrophied. If you don’t use it, you definitely lose it.
Needless to say, my dating and social life really suffered.
It wasn’t until I discovered what I’m about to share with you that I was able to turn things around.
If you’re in a similar situation as I was before, not all hope is gone.
Here’s how busy guys actually get dates.
If you’re not using online dating to meet women, you are handicapping yourself for no good reason.
Women who use online dating sites are there for one reason and one reason only… to meet someone!
You can check out their photos and see how they look. You can read their profile and learn a bit more about them which removes a lot of the guesswork.
If you don’t have an account, start one right away.
With a few great photos, a well-written profile and a thoughtful first message, you’re well on your way to meet someone worthwhile.
Leverage Your Network
Having a lot of the same interests is a must-have for a relationship to work.
It’s so much easier to date someone who shares the same interests as you. You don’t have to explain yourself because they understand exactly where you’re coming from.
What better way to meet a woman who’s like-minded than through your social circle?
Don’t be embarrassed to ask your friends for help. If they actually like you, why wouldn’t they set you up with someone who they think would be a good fit for you?
Tell your friends what type of woman you’d like to meet and let them play matchmaker.
Let’s be honest.
Approaching women is a huge struggle for most guys. Their fear of rejection holds them back from making the first move.
Going to a speed dating event eliminates that problem almost instantly. You get to interact with women in a controlled environment.
Not only that, the organizers of these events ensure that there’s an equal ratio of men and women. Most of people who attend speed dating events are busy professionals too.
No matter which path your take, make socializing a priority.
It doesn’t matter how busy you are, you have to put yourself out there.
I hope you’ve enjoyed learning this as much as I’ve enjoyed writing this for you.
If you would like me to help you succeed socially, click here and let’s connect.